Spouce dont like dogs

I'm not going to give any relationship advice or anything. I could never be with someone who didn't like animals in general. I like animals more than I like most people. They have feelings too. And they are part of our world, they existed before we did. Thats just a disrespect for life.

 

Yea the dogs are not the entire problem. She tolerated them in the past but ive always had a single dog and always kept them outdoors. She said she feels like my ho-bitch cause she works more than me and pays more than me.

I know what i have to do i have a good plan that should work well for both of us

 

Thats exactly what i tell my girlfriend! Thats funny. But she is gettin used to it. Even got her her own dog and got her helping in the yard so there is still hope!

 

That's good to hear.

I was going to second the opinion that this doesn't have anything to do with the dog. You said "she wasn't always like that," now she's a dog abusing wench. That tells me she has some major issues lying under the surface with YOU & the dog just got the brunt of it.

But I do hope your plan works b/c I wouldn't have my kids anywhere around a person like that - mother of my kids or not. There are PLENTY of people out there who are mothers of children who don't need to be & she sounds like one of them. Hate to tell ya bud, but a "great mom" does NOT abuse innocent animals, sickos do & IMO it won't be long before those kids are getting some punches & kicks too - if they haven't already.

JMHO ...

 

Look, I'm going thru a divorce right now, and my dogs were a topic of discussions all the time. When your spouse gets jealous of the time you spend and the things you do with your animals, its just about a wrap.

 

Look I'm going on 26yrs of marriage it takes alot of hard work to make it. But like Preacher said keep family and business seperate. And like someone else said I can bet you the problem has started from something other than the dogs aside from that kicking that dog is straight wrong... Good luck

 

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Lol .....

 

I can't remember where I read this but it rang true for me:

A woman marries a man thinking he'll change
A man marries a woman thinking she won't change

Both get disappointed.

 

Ill be alright.. Its nuthin to a boss

 

How true!!!!!

 

I wouldnt couldnt b with a woman who wouldnt couldnt at the very least respect my passions!

 

Sometimes men & women make rash promises while in the throes of new love. But after that honeymoon effect has worn off, a lot of things change.

 

I would like to add.. that we don't know anything about this woman other than the one negative thing that he posted. I've made the mistake of airing dirty laundry.. venting about my boyfriend and I heard the same ol routine of "kick him to the curb" But every situation is different. Did you know she didn't like dogs when you got with her?

 

i had one that wanted to take me to court for visitation rights to the dogs...i couldnt make that up:rolleyes:

 

That's some weird stuff there.She didn't get visitation did she??

 

Well, at least she cared about the dogs!

 

Any one who put's an animal in front of there family has life F@#KED UP .Ive gotten in many fights over people mishandleing my dogs "not arguments, fights".But would i not see my child everday over a phuckin dog,phuck no.I'm not saying this about your baby moma im talkin about your kid.Is the child going to stay with you if she leaves? probaly not, since you said she a great mom.So you arent going to see your kid everday,next thing you know shes got a new boy friend,and now hes helping raise your kid,hows that gonna make you feel.I gotta see my kid everday, and then i go outside to see the dogs.I agree the problem is steming from something else,I'm not saying let the girl run you by any means,she would'nt be kick'in my dogs in my house.But i also would'nt lose my family over it.You gotta find a happy medium

 

If the dog kicking was the only problem,no way would I want to lose my kids over it,unfortunatly men nearly always get the shaft in divorce court(no offense ladies,but it's true) but like I said everybody knows what the limits of the things they will tolerate are.My current wife likes dogs so I'm lucky,it's always a good idea to marry someone compatable with you,if they are to much different in the way they think move on before you have kids.Anyway just do what you gotta do.

 

I am going to give a bit of my mind. I did not read one re post to this BUT. Get this I Have lost 2 wifes for dogs, I lost a place that was worth at least 350,000.00 over dogs. BRO its alll what YOU can handle! The dogs will allways be part of you. will you all ways be able to have good kids?

 

Its not not badd as some may imagine. For 1, she would ever keep my kids from me im not a lame type of dude i been ther done that. And 2, i would'nt make her and the kids leave our home just cause she dont like my dogs! If i was her i might be a little mad too cause i havent been paying for much lately. Other than her dislike for my dogs this woman takes care of me and the kids. She just got tired of paying for everything especially when i dont give her any attention.

Shes never paid much or any attention to my dogs, she'l never like them but thats alright it wont stop me from raising more, ive had my girl dog inside the house all day. If i was her id be a little mad too cause i havent been paying for much lately. She didnt get away with it though i already told her shes paying for my dogs crop next week.

Thanks for all the advice Gamedog. Im looking for another home close to mine to keep my future dogs. Im splitin rent with my Pops, we want a cheap home with huge yard but im not movin away frm my kids.

If its all that badd for her shes the one that has to leave not me and my kids!