Question for the men

Ok so I was having a converstation with one of my girlfriends and her boyfriend and he said how much of a turn off it is when a woman isn't hard to get. How men rather have a challenge than something that is handed to them. I agree that its like that when you are single but what if you're married or in a serious relationship (when all the sparks die down) and the woman is throwing herself at you. This all started because I mentioned to him that lately it seems like I am the man in my marriage..lol. :dogtongue:So, is it different in a marriage or do men still want a challenge?

 

I'm also interested in the answer to this question! Speak up men! lol

 

i love a woman whos willing to throw herself at me. feed the ego

 

personally i enjoy the cake walk. the easier the better! but that's just me!

 

FUCK NO!!! her boyfriend must be gay!

i aint got all the time in the world just to spent it all gettin in 1 girl's drawers, i gotta job and bills to pay lol

them prudes get left for the birds over here.

 

all depends on my mood.....lol.....some vodka......a few pills....wait.....im giving clues out.....lol......i like to meet my women at....erm....shhhhh....cant SAY....

 

peppa likes to meet his women on here lol

 

:pno way.....my women find me.....via the "nymphomaniac society"......

 

lol.......................................

 

try it.....your sure of getting a smile at the end of the the night......friday night nympho club........you would pay to get in......lmfao......"first come,first served"......literally.....

 

:rolleyes:... lovemybull I am not a man so can't help you with my helpful comments like those above but I do think once the spark is 'gone' it kind of takes both people to rekindle it, or at least take turns. I've always been the aggressor too but that can get old if you want to be wooed from time to time (I'm not talking candles and rose petals just something more than 'want sex?'). Maybe guys are just lazy *cough*. :eek:

 

magdalena needs a "spit n wax".......lmfao...... ....gigity gigity...:p:dogtongue:

 

:eek: Nothing to wax here bub.

 

nice........

 

*whistles*

Love the new avatar Lee D!

 

I don't want a challenge after marriage.

 

Show him or tell him directly what u want.Men are direct.If he knows that he will get some good loving because he draws you a bath,lights some candles,and gives you a massage.He'll be doing all kinds of romantic things for you. Now if he does these things for you and then you take charge and ride him like a stallion(blunt but it works).You will receive more attention then you can believe.Don't believe me ask any man

 

Massage, yes I know that is the secret word for going to try to get some.

 

thats not true with all guys.. some of them you can tell them direct and all you see is question marks over their heads. :rolleyes:

 

I am pretty sure they all know the massage trick though. But yeah I feel sorry for the lightbulb blown out ones. Seriously I would settle for 'want sex? please'. That's making an effort...